Learn to Touch Again: Private Masterclasses for Self and Partner
Touch is our first language. Long before we speak, we’re held, cradled, fed — and through this, we learn safety, love, and belonging. But somewhere along the way, many of us forget.
Touch becomes loaded. Sexualised. Withheld. Task-driven. Or simply absent. We lose the ability to really feel — or offer presence through our hands.
In my private masterclasses, we return to touch not as performance, but as presence. Whether you're exploring this work solo or with a partner, this is an invitation to relearn the language of connection — one breath, one fingertip, one moment at a time.
Why We Forget How to Touch
Most of us didn’t grow up with conscious touch. Instead, we experienced:
Inconsistent or absent physical affection
Touch tied to obligation or performance
Sexual touch that felt disconnected or misattuned
Trauma that made the body unsafe
Over time, we either armour up — going numb — or we reach out without clarity, unsure of what we’re really offering or needing.
Relearning touch means slowing down. Getting curious. And honouring both your own boundaries and someone else’s.
What Happens in a Masterclass?
Each session is shaped by your intentions. You might come as an individual, wanting to reconnect with your own body. Or as a couple, ready to find a new way of meeting through touch.
Together, we explore:
Consent and clear communication
Touch vocabulary (holding, stroking, pressing, cradling, etc.)
Receiving vs giving — and how to do both with presence
Body-mapping (learning what feels good and what doesn’t)
Safe touch after trauma or shutdown
Erotic vs nurturing touch — and how to separate and blend them
No nudity is required. Nothing is expected. Everything is co-created.
For Individuals
If you’re working solo, this space is for:
Reclaiming bodily autonomy and sensation
Healing shame around receiving or expressing touch
Exploring self-pleasure in a safe, sacred way
Learning to touch your own body with care, presence, and reverence
We might use mirrors, guided body-mapping, energy work, or sensual touch exercises — always led by you, and held with respect.
For Couples
Couples learn how to touch each other — again or for the first time — without agenda. This may include:
Consent-led touch rituals
Non-verbal communication exercises
Polarity and energy dynamics in touch
Sacred touch for healing and erotic play
Rebuilding trust through safe physical connection
Many couples say they leave not only more connected, but with practical tools to use at home — long after the session ends.
Why This Work Matters
Touch can:
Calm the nervous system
Release trauma stored in the fascia
Build trust and intimacy
Open the door to erotic awakening
Help you feel at home in your body
It’s not just about pleasure. It’s about presence. And for many, it’s a return to self.
What Clients Say
"I didn’t know how shut down I’d become until I was touched with no pressure to respond. It cracked something open in me. A softness I’d missed."
"We came thinking we needed better sex. What we got was deeper connection, better listening, and the ability to feel each other again."
Where and How
I offer private masterclasses:
Across the UK in person
As part of larger transformation journeys
At selected retreats or intensives
Occasionally online (for self-practice guidance)
Ready to Reconnect?
Whether you’ve never felt safe in your body, or you’re ready to deepen what’s already there — learning to touch again is a radical act of self-love.
🌿 I offer trauma-informed, sacred touch masterclasses for individuals and couples across the UK.
👉 Book your free discovery call today
Come home to your hands. Come home to your body.
References
Haines, S. (2019). The Politics of Trauma: Somatics, Healing, and Social Justice. North Atlantic Books.
Brach, T. (2003). Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha. Bantam.
Field, T. (2014). Touch. MIT Press Essential Knowledge Series.
