The Transform Arc: Why a Three-Month Journey Creates Lasting Change for Couples (Copy)
It’s one thing to have a breakthrough. It’s another to live it.
Psychedelic experiences — especially MDMA-assisted journeys — can offer couples extraordinary openings: a moment of clarity, an emotional reconnection, a glimpse of what’s possible. But without structured support before and after, that insight can fade into memory.
That’s why I offer a three-month Transform arc — a carefully held journey designed to create sustainable relational change. For couples across the UK and internationally, this arc offers more than just a session. It offers a turning point.
Why a Single Session Isn’t Always Enough
MDMA-assisted therapy can feel miraculous. Many couples report:
Speaking honestly for the first time in years
Feeling deeply seen and heard
Reigniting touch, play, and desire
Softening resentment or grief they thought was permanent
But life rushes back in. Old patterns return. Integration is where the real rewiring happens — and without it, the magic fades.
The Transform arc honours the full process: before, during, and after.
What Is the Three-Month Transform Arc?
This isn’t therapy. It’s transformation — rooted in neuroscience, somatics, relationship psychology, and trauma-informed facilitation.
Here’s how it unfolds:
Month One: Foundations
This phase is all about preparation. We build safety, understanding, and clarity.
Includes:
Joint and individual coaching calls
Exploring your relationship story
Mapping attachment styles and protective patterns
Breath, movement, and nervous system practices
Clear intention-setting for your journey
We don’t rush this. The stronger the foundation, the deeper the dive.
Month Two: The Journey + Integration
Depending on what’s emerging, this month includes:
An MDMA-assisted session (or psilocybin, depending on needs and readiness)
Supported re-entry and somatic processing
Integration coaching to explore themes such as communication, desire, boundaries, grief, and polarity
Relational repair practices and daily rituals
You are held — not just in the journey, but as you return to your everyday life with new eyes.
Month Three: Deepening + Embodiment
In this final phase, we help ground your insights into the body and relationship.
Options include:
A second journey (MDMA or psilocybin)
A tantric body-based session focused on self or partnered reconnection
Coaching sessions exploring long-term patterns, erotic healing, and relational expansion
Integration of tools, agreements, and embodied awareness into daily life
This month brings the arc to completion — and prepares you to walk forward together with clarity and confidence.
Why Couples Choose This Journey
This arc is designed for couples who are:
Longing for reconnection after emotional drift
Navigating rupture, betrayal, or grief
Feeling “stuck” in cycles of shutdown or blame
Wanting to reignite intimacy and trust
Ready to do deep, meaningful, embodied work
Whether you're married, separated, or somewhere in between — this work meets you where you are.
Is This Available in the UK?
Yes. While MDMA remains a controlled substance in the UK and cannot legally be sold or prescribed, many couples across the UK are engaging in this work in private, conscious, and intentional ways.
This Transform arc is available across the UK in person, or internationally via travel and retreat formats.
My role includes:
Emotional and relational preparation
Trauma-aware facilitation of MDMA-assisted sessions
Integration and embodiment coaching rooted in tantra, somatics, and real-life practice
What Couples Say
“The session was powerful, yes. But the real transformation happened over the weeks after. The way we touch, talk, listen — it’s changed.”
– L. & S., Manchester
“We’d done therapy. This was something else. We felt held the whole way through, like we were finally safe enough to be real.”
– D. & H., Sussex
Final Thoughts
Your relationship doesn’t need a quick fix. It needs a sacred container. One that honours your past, supports your healing, and holds your future with care.
This is what the Transform arc offers. Not just a single moment — but a new way of being together.
Ready to Begin?
I guide couples through a three-month arc of reconnection, healing, and embodied change using MDMA-assisted sessions, somatic tools, and deep integration coaching.
🌿 Whether you’re rebuilding after rupture or seeking new depth in your relationship, I can support you every step of the way.
👉 Book your free discovery call today
This is the work. Let’s do it together.
References
Bedi, G., Hyman, D., & de Wit, H. (2010). Is ecstasy an “empathogen”? Effects of MDMA on prosocial feelings and identification of emotional states in others. Biological Psychiatry, 68(12), 1134–1140. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.biopsych.2010.08.003
